Allow bootstrapping sphinx
1. Introduce --without websupport
Sphinx (build)requires sphinxcontrib-websupport but that
(build)requires sphinx. This bcond can be used to bootstrap this.
2. Introduce --without tests
The tests bring a lot of additional dependencies that make
bootstrapping harder. This allows to build without tests.
3. Build the docs with self
The documentation was built with 'python', thus importing sphinx
from python2's sitelib. Sphinx was installed because of the above
mentioned buildrequirement of sphinxcontrib-websupport.
Now current sphinx from PWD is used, also python3 is used when
available, otherwise python2. Never just python.